Hi valora,

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. That means a lot! I know you are right and I shouldn’t break ties with him. And I feel like a horrible person for feeling this upset when it’s his mom that is severally ill.. And he is the one who has to endure all the things that are going on over there, its not fair on him to have my tears next to it.

That’s why I am torn between keeping contact and cutting ties so he can devote his time on his family. I know in my heart that the last one would be best for him. But it’s that same heart that doesn’t want to let go of him. I just wished he lived nearby so the whole situation which is going on between us wasn’t even a situation. And yet, I am here.. Sobbing, while he has every right to break down. Its just a break up, his mom is battling for her life, I have no right to be so upset. I’ll get over it…. Some day. I will take your advise to heart. Thank you very much! I hope you had a brilliant new year with all the ppl you love. May 2020 be kind to you!

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