Dear Lindsey;

You must be on your way home as I type this, after a shorter day at work. New Year’s Eve there were 2 accidents on the way to where we were going and 1 on the way back at about 9 pm (not late). I can’t remember the last time I was awake at midnight New Year’s Eve. I am glad you are doing so much better and not having anything to do with K is a big part of it.

Regarding the college friend, reads like a nicer guy than K and the one before him, M was his initial, but I am afraid you will get anxious again, too anxious if you do spend time with him, and the fact that he lives far away and none of you expects to move to the other person’s State, what would be the use of going through the trouble of visiting, getting anxious before, during and after the visit… Way better that later, when you re settled in the condo you plan on buying, when the divorce is final or very close to final, maybe then aim at dating someone local who you are not working with.

You mentioned your dog’s wheelchair, is your dog disabled still?

anita