Dear Daniel:

Dec 23 you wrote about D: “I’m pretty sure that she doesn’t like me more than a friend. And that is the reason why I’m so scared of telling her how I feel. I don’t want to get rejected. To feel miserable again”.

Jan 5 you found out from a friend that she really doesn’t like you more than a friend, just as you were “pretty sure” of eight days before, and yet, you feel shocked (“I’m still in shock”).

Are you in shock that she doesn’t like you more than a friend, or are you shocked about how much it hurts?

It may be a good idea to talk to her, so to make sure that what your friend told you is true.

No matter how much it hurts, once you know for sure, you don’t have to wonder anymore about D. Good news is that D is not the only young woman in the land. There are others, there is still a requited love story out there for you to experience!

anita