Dear Rosie:

Then I see no reason for you to remain married. Why not aim at a better life? No reason to keep paying for a mistake when you don’t have to.

The two of you don’t have children, you don’t own property together, if I understand correctly. Go about it wisely, so that it is the least difficult for you. Make a plan how to achieve a divorce in the least difficult and complicated way. If you want to draft such a plan here, please do. Also, you know, or you should know the legal aspect of divorce where you live. I am guessing you will need an attorney?

anita