Valora- I am aware of the law of attraction but I haven’t looked into it properly- but I will now. I agree, even I am surprised at what a good example of that my situation was. I have actually been having counselling for the past year to try and help my issues but I’m not sure how far it’s got me since this all happened now! But I will keep seeking. Thank you.

I’m glad to hear you’re going to counseling. I go too, and I do think it helps, even if it’s gradual. The important part is you’re trying and I think that speaks volumes of good things about you.  If interested, one of my favorite blogs on law of attraction is Life Made to Order. The blog writer explains things in a way that is realistic and easy to follow, she advises that people not just focus on positivity but also work to get rid of the “ick” when it shows up, which helps to clear up that bad energy, and her writing is also helpful when it comes to accepting and being okay with things the way they are, even when they feel bad at the moment. That site has been sort of a form of counseling for me, too, over the past couple of years because she’s made me see some things in a new and better way.