Dear Alina:

“it worried me that I didn’t care.. I still feel almost nothing”- you are obsessed with what you don’t feel and what you should feel, feeling upset for not feeling a particular way.

“I know what I want. I want to love him”- you can’t make a feeling happen because you want that feeling.

“I know that I do love him in some way.. I always think of him and do things for him”- this is it, Alina. You have to change your definition of love from how you feel (or don’t feel) to —–> how you think and what you do.

Can you do that, this change?

anita