Dear Anonymous:

Maybe, just maybe it will be a good idea for you to message him and ask to meet him in person for the purpose of  expressing yourself to him clearly and honestly (when you are clear enough yourself about what happened). Point is that what happened was significant to you: It wasn’t Nothing, so it needs to be addressed as Something, in a meeting.

But of course, it is your life, your choice. I am not invested in you doing this or that. Plus, what I know is limited to what you shared.

Post again anytime and I will be glad to reply when you do.

anita