Dear Anonymous:

You are welcome.

“Seems like he wants to  be friends… if that’s the case he should know my feelings”- I agree. And I will add to it, he should know your feelings and then respond to what you tell him respectfully, sending you the message that your feelings are important regardless of what happened in the relationship, your honest feelings then and now (communicated responsibly) are valid and are worthy of consideration and respect.

I will be looking forward to read more from you regarding this man, and maybe regarding anything related to what you mentioned yesterday: “one of my deep core beliefs is that I’m not ‘good enough’.. so anytime that feeling is triggered it really hurts me”.

Wishing you well on your “healing and own self-love and growth”!

anita