Thank you I am just heartbroken as we were about to get a house etc and he surprised me with a trip away on my birthday then done it the next day. Also his reasons for splitting up were quite hurtful. He told me he would rather be out doing other things than spend time with me and after 6 years to hear that hurts so much. It has just knocked my confidence so much but I am trying to get through it by just keeping busy and back at gym  I know no contact deep down is the best thing because what is the point in texting?