Dear Janine:

You wrote about one of your former roommates: “She.. refused any social interaction with me whatsoever.. she would just stare blankly as if I did not exist at all!“-

– but you are doing jus that here on your thread, refusing any interaction with me. I posted a thoughtful third reply to you on this thread, addressing it to you by name, and yet, in your next post, right after mine (your most recent), you didn’t mention or respond to anything I wrote to you, as if I did not exist at all!

Three other members responded to you, 2-3 times each, each addressed you by name, and yet you didn’t address any of your posts to any of the members who responded to you, as if they did not exist at all!

So… see, well.. it is possible that you are ignoring people in your life, or are rude to them (just as you have done here, on your thread) and then when they ignore you in return, you complain that they are rude.

anita