Dear happyme1:

You wrote earlier: “My wife has treated them like her own kids”- them being your daughters. It just occurred to me that you didn’t write if your wife treated her own kids well or not. Lots of mothers don’t treat their kids well, so when they treat other children the same way, it is not a good thing.

Maybe your daughter who doesn’t want your wife at her wedding, maybe she has valid complaints. What are her complaints (if you want to share, of course)?

anita