Dear Gustavo:

I guess she is not as honest as I thought she was. I thought she was honest before because I figured that she spent all that time with you not knowing that you were interested in a love relationship with her, or maybe she allowed herself to think that maybe you are not. But now she knows that you are.

If she was honest with you and responsible to you, she would have either seen to it that the two  of you remain distant or she would have told you that she changed her mind and is now interested in a relationship with you.

She is back to the way it was, only now she can’t claim that she doesn’t know how you feel.

Many women enjoy a man’s special attention even if they are not interested in the man that way: they enjoy being wanted.

anita