Dear Gaia:

I am glad to read that you promised yourself that once you are financially independent from your parents, that you will seek quality psychotherapy. I have a couple of questions for you:

1. If you are “particularly aggressive.. compared to others, who have a more carefree or fun oriented attitude”- do you think the difference is because you were born with an abnormal brain or do you think that your childhood experience was abnormal, compared to others?

2. “why anger and negativity is my default state?”- do you think it is so because you were born angry and negative or do you think you acquired anger and negativity during your childhood?

3. “I’m not very good at expressing myself in real life especially since my turmoils are very vague and not always easy to articulate”- do you feel that as a result of our communication here, you expressed yourself less vaguely and that I understood you not in a vague way, but specifically and accurately, or not?

anita