Dear basil:

I am wondering if your boyfriend is the same one you referred to as Jason in your Oct 2017 thread, the one you met while in a troubled relationship with another man whose parents disapproved of you; following a breakup with that boyfriend you proceeded to have a relationship with Jason, then the ex returned to your life saying his parents changed their minds and he was ready to marry you. You then rejected the ex and told Jason about it. Next the relationship with Jason became cold, there were fights, breaks, getting back together.

1. Is your current boyfriend Jason?

In your current thread, you wrote about your boyfriend: “He says that me continuously doing the same wrong thing makes him burst out in a bad way”-

2. what is the “same wrong thing” he is referring to?

anita