Dear Anita,

“Unfortunately, ur husband can’t fill that hole…” is that because of he can’t or even if my husband is different person, is that also can’t fill the hole (i ask this not because wanna blame him, but i curious)? Is the problem : the part that empty of my heart..?

This day i feel down again.. I’ve re read ur answer, the other side of my heart still hurt and it’s also triggered when my husband didn’t chat me continuously and excitedly.. he just say something that i called “sending report”

Even i told him i don’t like it. I also want to change not to be possessive anymore. I don’t know why he still do this to me.

His figure for me : when at chat, he could be cold and reapeadly his word day by day. When he besides me, he could be really nosy and never shame to show me about anything he is, he could show his love by buying me something i love (but its not for a surprise), i thought when he with his friends, he could also tell the fact (he always tell the fact, even it’s not a good news for them)

U said that if he like or feel her special, he will impress with expensive stuff (chocolate, etc) and didn’t tell that she fatter. He could do that to me also actually. He could make a joke to me like that, such as “wow thats a good chair, u definitively like it. But i don’t have those money” or “hooouu u become fatter”.

And how about “is she married?” I answer she is still single.. i still curious why u ask about her status.. is that could influence ur answer before..?

I really hope he could keep on his promise..

Because in my heart it still wedge up. Since we can’t control others mind and feeling..

Thank you Anita..