Dear bwakebulleo:

I have very little information about your situation. You wrote that you broke up with him twice because of your immaturity but I don’t know what you mean by immaturity: what did you say and do that was immature.

In your most recent post you wrote that he didn’t share with you whether he was depressed or not after you got back together a year ago. I don’t know if he shared with you about his feelings/ troubles/ depression and whatnot in the first two years of your long distance relationship.

I think that it is better that you don’t spend the money to fly to his country when the communication between the two of you is as poor as it is now. If you want, you are welcome to give me more details about this LDR of three years and I will be glad to offer you more of my thoughts and suggestions.

anita