Hi ! Currently i am in a relationship with an Indian man. We just met on a dating app. He was very frank though that he is not going to marry me as he is into arranged marriage. At first i was like “What ? ” I thought it was a joke but it was his truth. On our first month, nothing serious going around , we were just having a good time. He was very consistent on calling me from work, chatting and vcall everyday. We would sleep late. Suddenly on our second month together, i felt that i was falling for him like i miss him when he replies late because of work and all, i told him we should stop this relationship coz it wasnt right and it will hurt me in the end coz i know he cant be with me. I blocked him plenty of times but he calls from work, office number ?? on my mobile ?? and i was just to inlove to reject the call. The relationship went on despite the truth that he cant marry me , on our third month, he was always telling me to help him find work in my area so he could transfer and be with me. I was shocked . I just said i’ll help. I wondered why this days he was so eager to work away from home . Then he confessed that his parents are forcing him to sign up in A matrimonial site so he could find his bride + kundali match. I didnt know what to feel after he told me that. And i just said ” okay ! Will be supporting you all throughout your wedding day.” But when the reality sank in , i felt the pain . I didnt knew it would pain this way even though the relationship was just new. Everyday we were saying our i love yous , staying up late , so much late coz according to him , he only have limited time left. I will just laugh when he will tell me that but deep down it hurts. Today, i asked him should i let him go coz he will be very busy in finding his bride, he said ” dont leave me even i cant marry you, i will still love you irregardless of my marriage .” ? I dont know what to feel anymore or what to do. ? I was a secret though, no one knows about me in his family, but i introduced him to my family and friends. I know i will be hurt in the end but i i dont know how to stop either. I always tell him to be happy in his marriage and be a good husband and all. ?? I am wishing him well despite my heart being shattered. We agreed that i will attend on his wedding . It will hurt soo soo soo much. Help ?