Dear singlechild:

I understand. I am not a Buddhist, don’t believe in reincarnation. Because he does, better he asks one or more Buddhist whom he respects if him accommodating his 95+ old grandmother’s last request may hurt him in future lives. If the Buddhist stand is that accommodating her will hurt him in one or more lives to come, he shouldn’t accommodate her wish.

I hope you and your partner are safer during these difficult times, as well as your father.

anita