Dear Kat

Often when relationships are set a certain way, for a long, long time, it is difficult or impossible to change them. Both parties of the relationships must be motivated to change the relationship. Sometimes adjusting to an existing bad relationship in a way that is less disturbing is the best one can do.

I will be away from the computer for a  while, maybe for as long as 14 hours from now. If you want, you can share with me about the existing relationships in your home, and maybe I will have some useful suggestions for you.

anita