I was married for over 12 years 3 kids 12 and under when I found out he had been living a double life and was expecting a son with one of his whores.

I tried winning him back pretending he didnt do anything wrong..because if I did bring up it up he would rage and cut me off. No matter how much evidence I put in his face. He denied it. I couldnt even call her a whore but he allowed me to call her a bitch.

Hes been living this way for Idk so many years. And was always a good husband father provided. It took me for a shock when he totally changed and started treating me as if he could care less when he has always went out of his way for me. I guess because I found put knew the real him. He didnt care anymore.

I tried to pretend I didn’t know what hes done and so did he when trying to work things out for the family’s sake. But basically wanted me to never bring it up continue to pretend and allow him to continue with his double life without question.

It has given me extreme anxiety and depression. Especially when he goes way and beyond to keep this dirty secret hidden.