* Inky, so good to read from you again, a semblance of normalcy in this abnormal time, glad you are here!!!

Dear Anna:

If your friend’s intention is to make you feel bad and therefore make herself feel better in comparison, then she is not that happy in her new marriage. Happy people are not motivated to make other people feel badly.

If her intention is to help you by.. pressuring you to  pressure your boyfriend to move in with you.. I figure that’s how she got her boyfriend to marry her, via pressure. No one likes to be pressured, some succumb to it and move in/ get married, and others, wiser people, get away from the pressure source.

anita