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Listen- He is NOT your friend. He is not going to be your friend either. He’s keeping you calm/stable enough o get what he’s after which is this money. If he’s already at arms length with you and your son- what’s he going to do when he gets his payoff. This is someone who not only had no problem destroying your life, but your son must be feeling the effects as well. Regarding the equity in the house, RETAIN A LAWYER. Not only will you be protecting you and your son’s future, but you’ll get an outside perspective that may give you more understanding. I’m telling you- something more is going on with him. Up, packed and gone in a day? And never talked to you and said, “look, I’m feeling like this isn’t working out” or something with a little dignity and honor?? Don’t agree to pay him to leave you in the lurch. I’m not saying that from a place of anger, but now is the time you need to protect yourself financially, emotionally and mentally. This pandemic is taking a major toll on EVERYONE. This is a seriously dangerous situation we are all facing and I too have a lot of anxiety- I can’t sleep at night, or I’ll sleep all day. I’m depressed (I live alone) and am dealing with losing a relationship that was on and off for about 35 years. So I know you’re hurting, but I promise you- things will improve for you. But don’t just buy him out – The fact you’re considering giving him a penny is wrong. He wanted out– Take care. That is still the home for you and your son. I will pray for you!
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