Dear RA:

“I’ve been ruminating and trying to figure out if there was anything I had done wrong. Or is trying to build a few relationship over the distance a lost cause from the beginning?”-

– I didn’t read anything in what you shared that suggests that you did anything wrong. I think that for most people, a long distance relationship is a lost cause because people .. need people in their presence, not far, far away. Reads like she enjoyed your company very much when you were in her physical presence, but away from you.. maybe she missed you but was tired of missing you, so she got involved in her daily life and let go of wanting you; maybe she met someone else in her geographical area.

You treated her very well, but not enough to make up for the long distance, I am guessing.

anita