Dear isabelle:

If it is you in that photo, you are beautiful and in great shape indeed!

Maybe he wasn’t that upset about losing and about your comment, or maybe he was upset but got over it. In any case, he should do the household chores for the next few months so  to balance the fact that you’ve been the one doing “almost all the chores alone since the beginning” of your relationship.

Regarding the match that you will be having today- is it in any way dangerous? You definitely don’t want to injure him, or get injured (twisting an ankle or whatnot) during this pandemic, needing medical care, or a hospitalization!

If it is safe and you will be doing this rematch today, have no mercy on him, but don’t repeat the ballerina vs soldier comment, find some other victory comment or declaration, something that cannot be reasonably interpreted as offensive.  I hope to read about it later!

anita