Last few days have been so hard so ex has all of sudden decided he want to call and text and talk as he’s lost his Mum and not couping  he did not call when it happend

I’m so torn as I feel I need to be there for him I loved mum in law so much and my son needs his dad at this time he’s finding it hard.  Never lost anyone before

He’s pulling at my heart strings as m still very much in love with this man but he’s only in contact due to his loss has not changed the situation with us    but wants me to be there for him so so hard