Hi Culotta,

I would join the military. Even at your age. They will take care of you to some degree. They do “raise you” again. I saw a tremendous transformation in my son. He is still the same guy, but he carries himself with a confidence that is through the roof.

Then I would have the military help pay for the rest of your education. Get a degree, even if it’s online.

Then I would open my own business. Something small but life affirming. Dog grooming. Baking. Social media consultant.

I would also volunteer in my community, go to a place of worship and even run for a public office. Military rank? Degree? Local business? Public servant? You will rake in those connections. And you will meet quality romantic partners. Soon you will have the stable two income family you crave.

Good Luck!

Inky