Dear MG03:

“he will do it for once and then I can decide what I want”- but you already told him what you wanted, and he already said that “he will follow your orders”!

“So maybe I can observe his reaction when I meet him”- exactly my suggestion: that you observe him, listen to him and learn who he is. This is what I am doing as you share with me your observations and what he says to you.

Notice my following point: I have no doubt that he likes you, this is not the question. The question is: who is he (does he lie, does he tell half truths, is he trustworthy), and what is the nature of his liking you (does he value you, and respect you in addition to liking you)?

So take your time, observe and learn and I’ll be glad to learn together with you.

anita