Dear User34:

Good to read back from you and thank you for your good wishes to all who are reading your post.

“I still find myself really missing him… I tend to develop codependent relationships”- you form strong emotional attachment to men too quickly perhaps? Key is to take your time getting to know a person before becoming physically intimate with him. That way you get to be more objective when you get to know the man. And then, if you learned that he is the kind of man that is good for you and to you, then you can get physically involved with him.

Once naked with a man, vulnerable that way, interacting in such a private, personal way, a strong emotional attachment is likely to form and objectivity is out the door!

anita