Dear Giminie:

I am sorry that your great grandaunt and her husband are not nice people: it is very unkind to not share their food, to not allow you to cook food in their kitchen, to have you do tasks for them and charge you rent on top of all these things. No wonder you are anxious, tense and drained living with such unfriendly, unhospitable people!

Reads like it would be better if you lived elsewhere, in a place where you will be allowed to cook and where you live with friendly people. I don’t know about the lockdown restrictions where you live and border passing restrictions, but maybe you should move and live elsewhere, maybe quit your job and live with your boyfriend: brainstorm different possibilities to make your life calmer as soon as possible.

And post again anytime.

anita

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