Hii Ani and Natasha,

I am also sailing in the same boat like u both.

I am married since 5yrs and m working hard to work on communication issue btwn me n  my husband since we got engaged.

I am facing exactly same issues what ani had explained 6yrs back.. I am tired of putting all efforts but he is not changing a bit..I love him a lot…but sometimes I feel I made a wrong decision.

He never expresses him self.. i am not expecting him to say I love u everyday.. but we r in mid 30’s.. we expect our partner to b little expressive..romantic.. no pda is expected but he could plan some surprise on anniversaries or birthdays… its always me doing everything.. 🙁

He says he thinks that i am unpredictable.. i get angry easily.. but that’s not the truth.. I am like an open book.. I clearly says what i want what i need..how i feel..i share each n every thing with him.. but he is very secretive… even after asking for 100 times he dsnot share anything.. many time i hv seen that he wanted to say but he avoids spking out..when asked he says…nothing..!!

It is just not me who is facing this issue.. his own family also saying same things..he is like that since his childhood.. but I can’t talk to walls for my rest of the life.. we had many friendly discussion on this..to improve our communication but nothing fryitful coming out.. either we end up fighting..or some he promises to talk and share things freely henceforth… but he nvr keep it…

I am seriously tired of it… pls help..!!

Ani..how is ur life going on?? Any improvement??

Regards,

Prachi