Dear gamer;

Because he “had childhood trauma”, you shouldn’t add fighting to his trauma.

“How can I address the problems I have without making him feel that way?”- talk, never fight.

“How can he heal from that anxiety he claims he has with me?”- first, believe him that he really does have anxiety with you (vs. him claiming that). Second, communicate him, never fight, not for any reason. If he learns that he can trust you to not ever fight him, his anxiety will lessen.

anita