Hi Ddwag,

I am sorry to hear about your breakup and thanks for your input. We can’t stop things to happen to other people and it is especially painful when it is somebody you love so much.

Do you think you could have worked it out if you both had done something differently?

My main issue right now is that I say goodbye too soon. What if the space we create for ourselves only pushes us more apart? But at the same time I don’t want to stand in the way of his growth and he probably feels the same about me. In theory we are living the same experience but we actually experience them so differently, I am sure you recognise this feeling. Let me know how you handle that and if you have tips.