Anita  thank  you  and I will  have  to let  this all take  its course but I am  very mindful of what you say and it is a reality  I  will have   to accept. Regarding what you said (easier to  just copy it and repost here)  “how do I forget what he said”- I don’t think you can forget. Maybe what he said will not bother you much or at all in the future, but you’ll probably remember it. I must forget what he said in order to move forward if we  are  to remain good platonic friends. I don’t want to remember his  words and  I don’t want to remember  how he looks like naked whenever I see him in the future. I am thinking maybe  as Brandy said his accusation of me  violating his privacy is because he is afraid I am going to view him different now or Im always going to remember something so personal about  him and thus his reference about me knowing  how he  shaves his private area was  said defensively and not with malice although it hurt me and was very inappropriate and disrespected  my  good  intentions to help him because  I care.  I  don’t know  but I  want to give him the  benefit if the doubt  and  hope time heals  this situation.