Dear Puppo:

“In last 8 years he never opened himself in front of me and in 2 days he is very open, interested to  know my opinions, interested to know my friends now.. if it was so easy for him why he never put any efforts for us.. or maybe he never realized that’s important too?”-

– I figure that he didn’t put the effort before because he didn’t feel like it. And I figure he still doesn’t feel  like it, but he is putting the effort so that you will go back to the way you were before and he can then stop making the effort, like before.

He has the experience of having a non-demanding girl/ young woman in his life. That was convenient for him. Now you want more, so he figures: she is going through a phase of wanting more from me. I’ll give her more, she’ll then relax and go back to the way she was before. And I will go back to the way I was before.

“I asked him almost 100 times to sing for me” but he didn’t. He didn’t because he didn’t feel like singing to you. If he sings to you  now, it is for the purpose of you not breaking up with him.

“Guilty or not?” is the title of your thread. His answer to you is: yes, you are guilty, so stay with me! But why is he authority over innocence and guilt, what made him your moral superior, deciding on your innocence vs guilt?

(I am waiting for your answer).

anita