Dear Shini:

You are welcome.

“for example, we’re arguing about something. And I say something and it turns out to be wrong. He calls me stupid and asks me to shut up and listen to him because he knows better. And I do listen to him”-

– when he calls you stupid and tells you to shut up, he is the one doing something that is wrong. When he calls you stupid, you shouldn’t listen to him. You shouldn’t listen to anyone who calls you names.

You wrote about him in your original post: “He doesn’t care about being kind. He wants to be right“-

– he is wrong when he is unkind.

“Emotional support is important to me and I do expect that from my boyfriend… I’ll.. keep calling him to ask him to console me to ensure that he still loves me”- what is the point of having emotional support and consolation from the same person who calls you stupid and tells you to shut up?

“I feel like I’m asking too much. I feel like I should leave him so he can be peaceful”- I do think that you should leave him so that you can be peaceful.

anita

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