Dear Katie:

You are welcome. This is my thinking on the matter: he broke up with you, and he is about to stay with a friend of his in LA. I am guessing that he knows that you too plan to move to LA, or that you have been considering moving to LA. If you contact him to talk, he may feel pressured to take you along with him to LA, to arrange for you to live with his friend as well, and/ or combine his LA plans with yours otherwise.

And that pressure will be counterproductive to what you want to achieve by contacting him.

Maybe there is information I don’t have which will make all the difference and contacting him may be a good idea. Is there such information?

anita