Dear Jason:

She may have been upset that at any one time he was not interested in having sex with her, maybe she was shocked that a man who was always after her refused to have sex with her that one time!

“Why she is sabotaging her own life goals.. by constantly pushing him out.. stay in this chaotic dynamic?”- because she is mentally unwell, I suppose. Lots of people don’t choose sensibly because they are unwell. Lot’s of people prefer drama on the outside because it distracts them from the drama in their inside: when is quiet outside, it’s noisier inside (in the brain, that is).

“Is she enjoying abusing him..”?- I think so, enjoying having power over him, enjoying pushing him away and seeing him crawling back to her.

(I will be back to the computer in a few hours).