Sofat:

A teacher is a professional and as a professional you need to have professional relationships with your students. It is unethical, and may be illegal for a 29 year old teacher to pursue a 17 year old student (or any 17 year old) for a private relationship, be it friendship, dating or marriage.

Reads to me that you are indeed “alone and desperate” and clueless in regard to relationships. If you reply to what I wrote so far, I will communicate with you further.

anita