Dear blkhwkdwn1:

You said earlier that she doesn’t want to commit to a schedule of seeing a person (something I suggested before);  she likes to go with the flow instead, so what can you do.. all you can do is call her once a month or so and ask her to meet you for coffee or a socially distanced picnic in the park (take away veggie or vegan something), like you did before. In other words, you can set a schedule for yourself to call her on the 15th of every month, let’s say, and suggest coffee or a picnic or a hike, so altogether you are aiming at 12 meetings per year. My position is still, that she genuinely likes you, so I think it may work. What do you think?

anita