Dear blkhwkdwn1:

There is no more input that I can give you on the matter of this woman. I gave you all that I had, 64 pages of it, Sept 2016- June 2020. I gave you all my thoughts, all my suggestions over time. I read and re-read your posts many times, doing my best to understand you, her and the situation. I have nothing left.

You are welcome to re-read our communications, study it, re-read my suggestions, learn all you can from these 64 pages. It’s all here, there is nothing I can add to what I already wrote to you.

You are very welcome to start a new thread on another topic: click Forums above, choose a Category, click it, scroll down to the empty box, fill in a new title and a new original post. I will be more than glad to communicate with you on a new thread. In a new thread I will not discuss this woman whom we discussed for almost four years.

I am withdrawing from this thread. You can post here anytime you want, as much as you want, it’s just that I will no longer post on this thread. I hope to read from you on a new thread, when you are able and willing.

You wrote: “I need a break from this all”- I hope you take the break that you need, a break as short or as long as you need it to be. Be good to yourself and, if and when in contact with her,  be good to her as well. Communicate with her honestly: don’t guilt trip her, don’t pressure her to text you or call you or to meet with you- be respectful of her right to choose how she spends her time.

anita

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