Dear Cecilia:

But you do deserve an answer and he was/ is wrong to not have answered you.

“I told him, I have not changed myself, I am the same girl of the start“, but if he “often receives messages from girls”, and “he seeks novelty, intensity”, and “he had grown tired” of the exchanges with you, no longer experience the surprises he likes to experience.. then he doesn’t want “the same girl of the start”-he wants someone new, a surprise.

It is sad when that happens, and it hurts, to want someone long term, to settle with but he doesn’t want the same. If he was open to get to know you better, he would have found the novelty, intensity and surprise that he needs, but.. like so many people, it seems to me, he doesn’t want to bother investing in a deeper, lasting, quality relationship.

anita