Dear Barbu:

You found out that she told him that “she likes the idea of them trying something but she’s afraid of the result” 12 days ago. Seems to me that on one hand she wanted to get back together with him, and on the other hand, she was afraid of getting back together with him, afraid that she will feel closer to him again, and then he’ll hurt her somehow, maybe ghost her again.

She said it 12 days ago or earlier. Maybe she had a change of mind and heart since, particularly if he didn’t contact her for a long time.

anita

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