Hi Anita,

That’s true. I am actually thinking of sending him a message like sort of giving him an advice as a friend. Something like – he should think about letting his exes move on if he has no intentions of getting back together. It’s his first love by the way. Not the ex he broke up recently. He knows his first ex still loves him. He says he is not attracted to her anymore but still text her because he doesn’t want to look mean.

I also want to add to the text that being friends or reaching out to them is a way he is hanging on and hoping things will work out again.

what do you think?

Anna