Dear Felix:

I know you worry a lot about your image, about what people think of you, how they perceive you (“I don’t want them to underestimate me.. I don’t wanna say wrong words which will destroy my image.. he sees me like a child.. I look like a person who’s not independent”)-

– try to focus on being who you want to be. If you want to be independent, take the actions of an independent person, for example, initiate cleaning the long table after the gathering. Try to not think about what other people think of you. Instead be who you want to be.

anita