Dear KayCee:

You are welcome and I appreciate your input because it teaches me more than I knew before I communicated with you. I do believe what you wrote, that “the entire incident wasn’t sexual at all”. But what I learned from our communication,  is that when someone talks about someone else’s “down there”, or posts sexual details, it feels like that person was turned on or is turned on by sharing those details!

It is something for you (and any OCD person who obsesses about anything sexual) to keep in mind when sharing obsessions of sexual content on a public forum: some people will feel that it turns you on to share those things, and some people will be turned on themselves by reading those details.

Thank you for increasing my understanding on the matter. I understand that you don’t want to go further into your OCD history. If you do want to start a new thread on any matter, please do.

anita