Sunflowerbabe:

I don’t know if you asked him on the first date or before the first date if he smoked, but it would have been a good idea to ask this question before dating anyone, because it is a deal breaker for you.

You’ve been dating him for a couple of months, and now you know: one option is to withdraw and end the very short relationship, another would be to ask him if he is interested in quitting the dangerous habit of smoking- it has happened before, people quitting this habit.

Another option is to continue dating him and set certain rules: he can’t smoke in your presence.

What do you think about these options?

anita