Dear Bill:

In your original post, July 12,  you wrote that he told you that he had a “random convo” with his parents, “about how his parents might not be able to bound with someone from another tribe, and he should try to meet people from his tribe”.

In your post almost a month later, Aug 10, you wrote: “I made him confirm and he said they don’t have a problem with it”- so he lied earlier, or he is lying now.

I understand that you are emotionally attached to him, and it seems to me that he is emotionally attached to you, and that is why “he keep calling, talkin to me like we’re dating!” (Aug 10).

But he lies to you, he lies to you. This is why you are confused (“I’m confused”). There is something more important than emotional attachment, and that is telling the truth. You ask him questions and you take his words as if his words have value. You know how easy it is to say words, as easy as it is for me to type these words to you, the words you are reading right now.

Don’t take his words as if they were the Word of God.

anita