Dear Alisha:

In your original post May 3, you wrote: “We’ve known each other for two years and he’s been my best friend for 10 months… I was once absolutely crazy for him. I was craving him every second”. Today, Aug 11, you wrote regarding your ROCD thoughts: “I’ve had these ongoing thoughts since the first month of us being together.”

I was then surprised to read that you “never actually seen each other in person”, you never met him, never held his hand, never felt his skin.. never walked with him, never shared a meal.

You wrote today: “With an ex of mine, every time we’d talk, my heart would race and I’d get butterflies.. my current boyfriend, though, I haven’t felt these feelings basically at all”.

My question to you: did you meet that ex of yours in person, or was your relationship with your ex also strictly online?

You wrote today regarding your online boyfriend: “I want to spend my life with this guy and only this guy”- question to you: did you and him make any plans to meet for the first time, or is the plan to spend your life with him online?

anita