Dear Michelle:

“What if this person lacks self love, can they love you?”- a person that lacks self love, or appreciation of his worth, is more likely to take your love than to give you love, and sometimes he’ll take your love for a while and then throw it away, feeling unworthy of it, or becoming angry.

“can two people really ever grow at the same rate?”- most people don’t grow at all, if growing means to examine ones emotions, motivations, behaviors and to change behaviors according to chosen values. So, really, most often two people who are together.. don’t grow at all.

“Should you continue to love someone who does not love you”?- better not. It hurts to love and not to be  loved in return.

“does that mean I was right to remove my love because he was not meeting my expectations?”- yes, of course. But.. how did you exactly remove your love?

anita

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