Dear Lily:

“you are having too much fun with the turtle comparison, haha. But also, I do not feel completely comfortable with it. The bottom line is that we are very different.. no match”- I will be glad to withdraw from the turtle comparison. Thank you for letting me know that you are not  comfortable with the comparison.

“I was the person that I want to be. True to myself yet friendly… I feel that even if I meet him, I will be able to stay true to myself. I have gained some confidence”- yes, you are true to yourself and kind and friendly at the same time.

Good to read that you gained some confidence and that you are confident that if you met him you will be true to yourself.  I hope that not meeting him is you being true to yourself.

anita